Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Recessionistas, Unite!

When it comes to the economy, I am just as worried as the next person. I have bills and debt and student loans and rent and all of that awesome stuff that keeps me up at night. Freelancing is amazing, but it's not as steady as I'd like it to be. Sometimes I go a week without a writing project and I feel like I'm going to lose it, and then I get seven all at once. It's crazy.

Anyway, my friends are getting laid off left and right. I keep hearing stories all over the internet, too, that have me fearing the future. I was on this one fashion forum recently when a fellow forum member told her story about losing her job. I had no idea, at the time, that this story of unexpected job loss would turn out to be so incredibly inspirational.

I contacted her and asked her if she would tell her story to the readers of my blog. Erin (that's her name) was more than happy to.

I began designing jewelry nearly six years ago. I saw a beaded necklace that I wanted from an online boutique that was well over $200, and thought, ‘I could make that.’ I didn’t exactly know what I was doing, but I made my version of that necklace, then another necklace, and I was addicted. Soon thereafter friends began commissioning me to make them pieces, and thus, my business was born. I took a class at a local bead shop to make sure I knew what I was doing, which to date is the only jewelry class I’ve taken. I’d love to say that this is because I’m a complete natural, that I just pick everything up easily. While partially true (I am mostly self-taught), a big reason I haven’t taken that metalworking class I’ve been meaning to take for two years was my j o b. My day job, that is.

Concurrent to this entrepreneurial tale is the (significantly less exciting) story of my career. Like many crafty, artistic folks I needed a “real” job to keep me afloat. 8 to 5 I spent in an office, and nights and weekends were spent trying to muster up enough energy to make jewelry, update my website, peddle my wares. Sometimes the energy was there, more often it wasn’t. I’d get really motivated when I had an art show coming up, for example, then afterward would crash and not make a single piece for months and months. I would talk about finally taking that class but never sign up for it, finally start my Etsy store, talk about many things I could do with my talent, but never make them happen. It was a frustrating cycle.

Then last Monday everything changed. Like so many people I’d been hearing about on the news, I was laid off from my job. Nothing personal, times are tough and I just didn’t have a job anymore. I was sad, angry, and devastated, but I was also…motivated. All of the sudden I had ALL THIS TIME. Time to do what I wanted with, not someone else. It was completely scary, but also exhilarating.

My very first days as a full-time jewelry designer I decided to do something that I’d been putting off for well over a year. Maybe even two – I lost track. I created my Etsy site. Etsy is one of my favorite places on earth (okay, I know it’s not an actual “place,” but it really is kind of like a magical land). That site has really taken off in the past year and it’s so exciting that there’s such a huge market for original, handmade items. I knew I needed to be a part of it, but again with the 8-5 life, I never made the time. Four days later, on Friday morning, I got the final pieces of my current collection up, and my Etsy page was complete. It felt awesome, and instead of crashing, I turned right around and started making more things to put up.

I still have a ways to go towards making my passion my full-time gig, but this is a start. Will I have to take another job someday to help fuel what I really want to do? Perhaps, but I’m not rushing into it. I have no time for a job right now – I have jewelry to make.




What struck me about her amazing story is this fact: so many people hate their jobs. Their jobs are neccessary for them to pay bills and maintain their lifestyle but almost everyone would rather be doing something else. Instead of letting dire economic crises and job loss ruin her life, Erin took it in stride and turned the negative into the postitive. This is the most inspirational thing I've read in a long time. It should give all of you out there the ability to replace fear with hope. If you lose your job, you can finally start painting, or sewing your own clothes, or trying your hand at being a personal stylist. It's funny how our careers can sometimes stand in the way of our dreams. Stepping out of a dead-end career is usually the best thing that's ever happened to us!


Okay, here's the best part. Erin's jewelry is fantastic. No, really. It's awesome. I am crazy about it. Here are some examples of stuff for sale in her Etsy store:



















Awesome, right? I told you! She is offering a 10% discount for readers of High Fashion Girl. Convo her on etsy, or leave me a comment to obtain her email address. Be sure to mention my blog for the discount!

My first thought after seeing the stuff available in her etsy store is, "I'm so happy she got fired!" I know that sounds mean, but I meant it in the most positive way possible. She is obviously a talented jewelry designer, and getting fired enabled her to put her stuff out there for sale. So maybe it's totally selfish because I want, like, every piece she has for sale, but I'm really happy this is the trajectory her life is on right now. It's inspiring and it puts a big grin on my face!

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

Great post and thanks for sharing this. I'm a communication graduate and I started my first office job at an investment bank exactly a year ago. It was totally out of the blue, I work at the brokerage department, I have to learn everything from scratch(eg. fx, commodities, margin, interest rate...) and I barely use anything I learned from my major/interest. Alot of my econ major friends would kill to get into an ibank. I thought I could work just for the better money, but I couldn't. I work like a zombie/machine- no heart is poured. I met admirable people there, including my boss, who work really hard with passion. The more I feel their enthusiasm and integrity, the more I'm determined to find my way. At the same time my bank is going through "restructuring" and they'll hire me until the end of this year.

I'm actually glad that I took this job right at the beginning because this one year I spent really taught me that fun jobs aren't just for the lucky ones. I need to look forward to mondays. This time I'm really taking time to think about what I want to do next in my career without sabotaging my job search.

I'm also glad that I'm not the ones who have families to feed or else things would have been totally different.

Cheers,
AC from Hong Kong

Grace said...

I so agree with you. Down here in South Africa, we are not feeling the recession but we are definitely feeling the impact of the interest rates on what we owe especially loans and credit cards. Inspiring story.....
Am still waiting for a glimpse of the article for Prim magazine.
grace@redflag.co.za

ryder said...

this is great post, so genuine and kind. thanks to you for the comment and link to our blog!

alixrose said...

This is a great story and one that is def. inspirational so a big thanks to you and her for sharing.
I just recently lost my job as well but it wasn't the biggest heartache just frustrating. So I have been using my time to do things I never had a chance to do.I actually look forward to getting up and not going to work and doing things that I want to do now if I could only figure out how to make a lot of money from it. hahaha!

alixrose said...

I've also added you to my blog roll, I hope that's cool. Thanks!

Marsha said...

Thank you for posting your friend's story have also just lost my job and it was a wake up call to follow my passion. So all the best to your friend her jewelry is beautiful.

fröken lila said...

this is really inspiring - and oh, how lovely those pieces are!! i need to check out her store directly, and as the time for buying presents to give to nice folks draws nearer i am sure i'll buy something there..

Sales Rack Raider said...

Thanks for sharing this story. Layoffs are really sad, and economic situations are stressful, but being able to channel the situation into an opportunity is wonderful. I believe that everything happens for a reason, good or bad. The best lessons I learned were from the bad times.

I went through a similar experience during the time between finishing my graduate program and the time I found a job. I was broke and student loan payments were looming. I had already started my Etsy shop while I was in school, but I took my unemployment period to expand. It was one of the most liberating experiences I've had; I didn't think I was capable of doing what I did, but I did it.

I LOVE my "day" job now, but I still look fondly on my start-up experience. I think that the skillsets I learned from my own business transferred very well over to my "day" job.

Sales Rack Raider said...

And one more thing--those jewelry pieces are beautiful! I can tell that she has a bright future ahead of her.

Sabrina (BinaaBean on Twitter) said...

I've always wanted to make my own jewelery, but it still costs a lot!

Sabrina (BinaaBean on Twitter) said...

That is AMAZING advice. The problem is I am too young to have a credit card, and I'm not sure my parents will trust me to use it on etsy.com. Also, the cost of shipping is usually high. I'm going to check this out though! :) Thanks for the great advice. It's encouraged me to look into making my own jewelery!

Grace said...

In that case, once you make some of your own jewelry and come up with a clever store name, maybe you can sell your stuff locally at boutiques? That way you don't have to worry about shipping and needing a credit card. There are lots of boutiques in my area that carry handmade stuff from local jewelry designers.